Why Every Girl Needs a Sister

Next weekend, my cute baby sister graduates from high school. She has worked so hard to get to this point, and I am so proud of her and everything that she has accomplished. She is so strong and shines brighter than anyone I’ve ever known. She loves fiercely and doesn’t let anything stand in the way of her boldness.

In honor of her and her graduation, I thought I would share why I love her so much.

My top five reasons I believe every girl needs a sister:

Improved Wardrobe:

This one seems like a no-brainer to me. Having a sister means that your wardrobe is automatically doubled. If you have a sister, and you fight over clothes, YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG. By choosing to have an “open-closet” policy with one another, the number of items to choose from is multiplied. You always swap clothing, and never have to worry about having nothing to wear! You know her closet will make up for the areas yours is lacking.

Honesty:

Having a sister means you will never have to wonder what she is thinking... about you or anything else. The honesty between sisters is too real. Positive or negative, it’s an unspoken promise to always tell each other the truth. From “You look great!” to “Gross, I can see your mustache from all the way over here. Are you going to wax that?” You will never have to wonder how you look, because… well... she is going to tell you exactly what she thinks. From major life decisions, to boys, and bad hair days… sisters tell their honest opinions 100% of the time. Sometimes it’s awful, but it is oh so necessary.

You Can Relate on a Deeper Level:

Sisters can relate on a deeper level than most. You are raised the same, taught the same values, and share the same family. You usually understand each other’s weird quirks and habits because you know where and/or who they came from. You share all of the same favorite family memories, and are always making new ones together. She has an inside look into your family life, because she is a personal part of it… the good and the bad. You just get each other.

Emotional Support:

Sisters are good for emotional support. They listen. They love the people you love, and despise the ones you don’t. They want what is best for you. Sisters let each other cry when it’s necessary, and tell you to grow up when it’s not. You pick each other up when you’re down, but aren’t afraid to give a slap in the face and say “GET OVER IT”.

Built in Maid of Honor/Life Long Bestie:

No amount of time or distance is going to come between sisters. Your relationship is lifelong, and time will do nothing but strengthen the bond. You are in each other’s life from the beginning to end. Every memory and milestone, she will be a part of whether in person or in spirit (or FaceTime). From being your very first dress up doll, to standing by your side on your wedding day, she is the one that you want to be holding your hand; the auntie to spoil your future babies. She will be there with you in the best times and worst, your number one and partner in crime. You’re stuck with her, so you might as well make the most of it.

Sisters are the best. Whether biological, adopted, in-law (I have the best one of these too), or friend... get yourself a sister! You need her, and she'll be the greatest thing to ever happen to you. 

And so, to my sister,

I am so thankful to have you. As you prepare to enter into the big, wide world, always remember who you are and where you came from. Remember the values we were raised on, and stand up for the things you believe in. Stand firm in who you are, but do not be afraid to let go and have fun. Do your best in everything and dream big. Don’t be afraid to fall, because we will be there to catch you. Chase your dreams and don’t stop until you reach them. Keep your eyes on HIM, because there is no other way. I am so proud of you! 

You did it!! I love you, baby sister.